My husband and I argue a lot; although we did not notice anything much about it because it was never those very heated kind of arguments between us, my sister did when she came over for a week to be with us.
And she felt that the arguments between my husband and me were more than what usual couples have and she thought my way of talking was all to blame for it. She spoke to me about it and conveyed her displeasure as according to her I was being the villain here because of the manner in which I convey things to him.
Two weeks after she left, I received a copy of this book, “How to talk to men.” I thought my sister had gone crazy because I didn’t think it would be of any major help but as I started doing things and talking in way as mentioned in the book, I could see that it helped me to a great extent.
I can even see very well the mistakes I have made in the past while I communicated things to my husband; not that I was right or wrong but the manner in which I told him things messed it all up. The change has been wonderful and we have lesser arguments these days and I think it has brought back the happiness in my life too.
Loved this book completely!